Are You a Herod or a Herald?

(Updated 12/1/2022)

Welcome back, friends!  I am thankful that you are here today.

In a previous blog post, “Christmas Time is Here,” I mentioned that we, as Christians, assume the herald role. We are to proclaim and pave the way for others to walk the path to meet our King. As I considered this role, another question emerged. One that initially seems simple, yet quickly deepens in complexity: 
This Christmas season, are you acting as a Herod or a herald?
You’re already answering: “Of course I’m a herald.” Done. Click away. What blog post am I reading next?

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What if the answer is not that simple? What if you are showing Herod traits without even realizing it? Maybe the process of acting out your role as herald is morphing you into a Herod. 

The Format

To compare Herod and herald, we’ll institute a side-by-side approach. Character trait by character trait. This is how we’ll do it:
  1. Identify comparable traits of each persona supported by descriptors.
  2. Connect each trait with compatible Christmas characters.
  3. Provide a “You know you’re a Herod/herald if…” statement
  4. Suggest ways to get from one to the other.
Let the analysis commence.

First Herod Trait – Selfishness

A Herod is cleverly selfish. Named, “King of the Jews,” by Marc Anthony, Herod felt allegiance to him when conflict with Octavian arose. However, he conveniently switched, dropping any illusion of loyalty, right at the end. This last-minute switch secured his title.

A title which Bible also depicts Herod fighting to retain. “Wisemen,” Herod connives, “Go to Bethlehem. Search diligently for this ‘King of the Jews,’ and when you find him, tell me where, so that I too may come and worship him.” (My very loosely and slightly opinionated translation of Matthew 2:8.) Herod desired the “King of the Jews’” location so he could kill the threat to his throne. No other would bear his title.

In each instance, Herod cleverly fought for personal gain. Have you done this? Have you fought for personal gain this season? I’d wager if you haven’t, you’re not human. We are selfish by nature and tend to initially act in favor of our own interests.

First Herald Trait – Selflessness

Heralds, alternately, are selfless. Actions toward personal advancement are contradictory to their purpose because heralds strive to advance the personal gain of whom they serve. Heralds propel others toward their master and remove obstacles that detract from this goal. 

I bet you’ve been a herald, choosing to do something for someone else’s benefit. You stay up late packing your kid’s lunch, despite your exhaustion. You watch the movie your spouse wants to watch, even though you can’t remember the last time you chose. You sing your workmate's praise, even when the favor is not returned. 

Questions to consider regarding tendencies related to selfishness and selflessness.

Second Herod Trait – Pride

Herod was prideful. He had a whole mountain moved just so he could have a better vantage point. His inner dialogue likely resounded as such: “My castle must be higher than anyone else’s castle. My castle must have the best views. From within my luxurious castle, I will send messages using mirrors.  No need of a herald for me.”

I wonder if your inner dialogue ever sounds this way - full of “my’s”. I know mine does. “My dinner last night was better.” “My phrasing flows more smoothly.” “My reasoning is more logical.” It’s easy to get a case of the “my’s,” and it’s easy to feel justified in having them. Perhaps, at times, it is true: within all of us lies the propensity for greatness.

Second Herald Trait – Humility

But heralds are humble. A herald, even great ones, stands in the shadows. Mountains move, but to remove obstacles, not to reside within them. Willingly, the herald grabs a shovel and starts scooping the dirt.  Joyfully, because a herald understands the end goal. The herald moves the mountain to clear the path to his king – so others may know him too. A herald does the hard work, the humbling work, because of the reasoning behind it: to bring glory to his king.

Doubtless, humility resides in you. Laundry, folded and put away, ushers in tranquility. Old clothes, worn with gratitude, permit calm in finances. Compliments, spoken in earnest, breathe life into others.

Questions to consider regarding tendencies related to pride and humility.

Third Herod Trait - Fearfulness

Herod was fearful. Multiple family members he murdered due to rumors of conspiracy. Constantly, Herod lived in insecurity. Distrustful and jealous, Herod questioned everyone around him. Never knowing peace, Herod - though powerful - was truly powerless. Fear ruled him.

Oh, friends. Fear, a controlling factor in my life also, is nothing to dismiss. “Do not fear!” The Bible commands countless times. So easy to say; so hard to do. It creeps into every corner of our life.  Whispers to us in the quiet. Awakens us in the middle of the night. Fear lives in your life too.

Third Herald Trait – Hopefulness

A herald, however, lives in hope. They believe when no one else believes. At the top of their lungs, they shout of a king no one else sees, hears, or understands. Consider Noah. He built an ark, foretold a flood and acted in obedience, all while labeled insane. Fast forward thousands of years, hear Peter dubbing him, “a herald of righteousness.” (2 Peter 2:5)

Hope fills your life too. Likely it’s a motivating factor, answering the “why,” questions. Why am I in this relationship? Why am I working here? Why should I keep fighting?

Questions to consider regarding tendencies related to fearfulness and hopefulness.

Fourth Herod Trait – Forcefulness

To combat fear, Herod used force – killing all who opposed: wives, mother-in-laws, brothers, babies. No pardons. Strong fear demanded strong force. Herod reigned. Fear him or face the consequences.  To eradicate fear, Herod terminated opposition. He would keep his throne, by force.

Sometimes, the solution seems obvious. The room needs cleaning. You can make that happen. Trash bag in hand, voice at full volume, you stomp toward the door. “One way or another, it will be cleaned!” Often, forcefulness presents as the most direct approach to our problems.

Fourth Herald Trait – Openness

A herald offers. They seek you, invite you, and genuinely desire your presence. Given a herald’s character, you’re likely to accept. You see, heralds uphold inviolable reputations; there is no reason for distrust. The response to an invitation from an inviolable person is likely one of affirmation. 

Hospitable. An adjective inseparable from your identity. Your dining room only lives when guests arrive. Planning perfect menus happens to top your nonexistent housewarming resume. Or perhaps, you’re the one who is always ready to offer a listening ear. In your own way, I imagine openness exists on your profile.

Questions to consider regarding tendencies related to forcefulness and openness.

Fifth Herod Trait – Craves Popularity

While, “King of the Jews,” Herod intensely craved affection from his subjects. Acts would do it: Restore Solomon’s temple beyond its former glory. Check. Build a synagogue. Check. Remit taxes.  Check. Distribute free grain. Check. Increase economic prosperity. Check. Expand the territory. Check. Fortify the city. Check. With all these acts accomplished, Herod still failed to gain popularity with the Jews. 

What do you do to get people to like you? Is this something for which you should strive? Should we work to get the attention of others? Should what others think of us factor into our self-perception?

Fifth Herald Trait – Deflects Attention

A herald seeks attention for his master. Soaking up attention directly negates the herald’s role. A herald shines the light on others, and if it lands on them, they deflect it back to their master. A herald knows it’s not about what they do, it’s about on whom the spotlight shines.

Where does the spotlight shine in your life? Do you point it on yourself and your deeds, or on your Master? If ever you find yourself soaking up the warm light, do you deflect it back to your King? Do you focus on the who you serve instead of the what you do?

Questions to consider regarding tendencies related to craving popularity and deflecting attention.

Sixth Herod Trait – Harbinger of Death

Herod, realizing his imminent death, rounded up a group of influential Jews. The murdering of these Jews upon his death would give those who remained a reason to mourn. Misery, after all, loves company as death desires companionship.

Perhaps you too pull others into your misery. When miserable, it’s painful to see others around us happy. It’s at times like these, deep in despair, that we lash out at others. We say and do things we don’t mean. We speak words and act in ways that bring death. Death to openness. Death to hopefulness. Death to selflessness. 

Sixth Herald Trait – Harbinger of Life

The herald from the Bible story brought news of life. Of life that changed history. Of life that flipped even the Bible upside down. Rules changed. Hope reigned for all because of a child, born in a manger, named Jesus. Here. With us. A herald that serves the Lord is to call all to, “Taste and see that the Lord is good,” (Psalm 34:8). To invite all to the One who is life.

This is you, friends. You shine your light from the hilltop on the one who is life. You desire all to, “taste and see that the Lord is good.” You work at removing obstacles that hinder those around you from making their way to the Lord. We act as Harbingers of Life when we choose words and actions that bring life. We shine our light on the one who is life and transformation happens. Forcefulness to openness. Fearfulness to hopefulness. Selfishness to selflessness.

Questions to consider regarding tendencies related to promoting death or promoting life.

Final Thoughts

Herod and heralds share commonalities. Both played significant roles in the story of Jesus’ birth. Both required people to listen to them. In fact, while a herald is a person who proclaims, Herod’s name means, “Song of a Hero,” or “Ode to a Warrior.” Both require people to hear. 

Honestly, I see myself in both roles across every comparison. Sometimes I am a Herod but other times a herald. I’d argue most people are. I’d like to see in myself more herald qualities. I’d like to learn to lessen the Herod tendencies. I think I found the way to work toward that goal. 

The truth hides in the words. Herod and herald, common in spelling, differ mainly with the “l.” The prominent sound difference being the final “ald,” instead of “od.” To change from a Herod to a herald requires letting in the l”ife. And there you have it: life makes all the difference. 
Jesus answered, “I am the way, the truth, and the life." John 14:6
This season and every day thereafter, won’t you consider joining me to work toward making this transformation by letting in The Life? Then, as heralds, together we can, “go up on a high mountain, lift our voice and shout without fear:
'Behold Your God!'"
Isaiah 40:9

With Love and Life,
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Research resources include:
  1. Encountering Herod
  2. Herod the Great


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